this is pretty offensive
This is pretty fucking stupid.
Fuck this shit.
Sex-posi, always! Unless you don’t want sex, in which case it’s yr personal decision.
but seriously what’s up with this shit
“Thinks BDSM can help healing for rape victims”
THAT’S BECAUSE IT CAN.
It’s not some fucking cure-all that works for everyone, but I can tell you right now that shit helped me.
I fucking hate when people speak for everyone in a group.
Some of these arent so bad. Yeah, taking control of your sex life is empowering, and if youre doing it right, BDSM DOES stay in the bedroom. But then there are some…”some men are just lonely”? What the hell does that have to do with anything?
Listen to the free space: It’s a choice. If you want it, then have it; if you dont like it, dont have it. IT’S YOUR CHOICE.
Going to disagree with you on one point - for some people, BDSM doesn’t stay in the bedroom. And it is perfectly possible to have a healthy, fulfilling relationship that way. I’ve seen too much fear-mongering about D/s and M/s relationships, and I think it is important to recognize that radical consent has room for these kinds of relationships.
Kink certainly CAN be confined to the bedroom. But that isn’t the case for everyone.
