incidentally we frequently get accused of just wanting to be a sparkly yaoi boy
when you’re trans you pretty much can’t win
trans guy dates a girl, he’s just “a super butch lesbian”
trans guy dates a guy, he’s just “a faghag fangirl gone too far”
trans girl dates a girl, she’s just “a dude who wants in on the lesbian fantasy”
trans girl dates a guy, she’s just “a gay man who wants to prey on straight guys”
and if either partner is genderqueer, why then you’re both just attention whores and trying to be special snowflakes!!!
notice though that usually the trans girl is treated like a predator and the trans guy is treated like a harmless but confused little lady
both suck BAD but this is why trans girls are the victims of violent crimes more often, they’re seen as deceptive rapists instead of as people
because it’s Totally Reasonable to think that someone would lose their friends and family and undergo mountains of paperwork, injections and surgery just for a sexual fetish or to sneak into women’s restrooms
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